’90 Day Fiancé’: Tania Maduro Shuts Down Syngin Colchester’s Trauma — ‘I Am Allowed to Get Frustrated’

by Jeremy Spirogis
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When it involves 90 Day Fiancé Season 7, followers have their heroes and villains picked by now. And to this point, Tania Maduro has been falling largely within the villain camp, primarily based on fan reactions to how she treats Syngin Colchester. One second that basically set followers off was when Syngin Colchester determined to dish about his traumatizing previous working within the South African mines. Instead of letting Colchester get it off his chest, Tania Maduro appeared to easily shut him down. Since then, she’s defended herself, however followers are merely not having it. 

Tania Maduro shuts down Syngin Colchester, defends herself

Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester of  90 Day Fiancé
Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester of 90 Day Fiancé | syngin_colchester by way of Instagram

During a automobile trip after her return from a thirty-day retreat in Costa Rica, throughout which she left Syngin Colchester alone, Tania Maduro began asking him about work. 

Colchester defined that he doesn’t have a piece allow and that he doesn’t need to work underneath another person anymore after his time within the South African mines. The 90 Day Fiancé star labored within the mines for seven years. 

Colchester additionally discussed having seen buddies get injured and die within the mines, clearly a traumatizing expertise. Maduro ended up telling him that it occurred “so long ago.” However, it may have been as latest as 4 years in the past, given when Colchester stopped working within the mines and his age on the time of filming. 

Tania Maduro defends her actions on ‘90 Day Fiancé’

Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester of  90 Day Fiancé Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester of  90 Day Fiancé
Tania Maduro and Syngin Colchester of 90 Day Fiancé | syngin_colchester by way of Instagram

Fans have been fast to rally to Syngin Colchester’s protection. Many of them attacked Tania Maduro for seeming callous and uncaring in the direction of Colchester following him opening up. 

On Instagram, Maduro replied to such a remark with, “I hear you. But that was not the first time I heard that, at all. And though it may seem uncompassionate, it was my frustration of hearing that so many times, offering support, looking up therapists or other modes of healing, with none of them being taken up, ever. I learned that my past was affecting my life in some scenarios so I started steps long ago to work on that never-ending healing. My frustration was knowing that, feeling that, yet no actions to work on it. Mines were 8 years ago, and we dated about a year and a half before the show, and during that time I heard how much things would be worked on and changed.”

In one other remark, the 90 Day Fiancé star wrote, “I did apologize after, but it also wasn’t my first time, and at some point, after I have listened, empathized, shared ways of dealing and healing with trauma, helping him to change his mindset from therapy being taboo to it being a good tool, to helping him look for therapists, there’s only so much I can do to support.I am human. And I am allowed to get frustrated.”

Fans react to her protection

However, followers of 90 Day Fiancé aren’t completely shopping for Tania Maduro’s defenses for her conduct. In reality, a few of them appear fairly offended with the fact star’s therapy of Syngin Colchester. 

One Reddit consumer wrote, “It only matters if bad things happen to her. She can’t see beyond her own thoughts and feelings.”

“On Sunday’s episode when Syngin opened up about working for SEVEN years in the mines I couldn’t believe how she acted. Especially while she talked about how he couldn’t/wouldn’t keep a job. I know seven years isn’t a huge number, but working in such dangerous and stressful conditions for any extended period of time is really difficult work. Then he mentions friends and coworkers losing their lives. So I’m sure in this time he saw the cycle of his friends dedicating their lives to their work then quickly disregarded and replaced because the companies value of dollar over life. Thus shaping his mentality about working to make someone else rich while he is miserable. Her whole issue with him ‘not holding a job long term’ is bullsh*t. Has she worked anywhere for seven years straight?” opined one other consumer.

Another added, “Why can’t she ever just say ‘I messed up.’ We don’t need to always [need] a million reasons why she does what she does. Sometimes it’s possible to just apologize for being a b*tch and leave it at that.”

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