Melissa Etheridge Turned Down Brad Pitt as Sperm Donor In Favor of David Crosby

by Jeremy Spirogis
Julie Cypher, Melissa Etheridge, David Crosby, Jan Crosby

Singer Melissa Etheridge lately skilled a devastating loss. On May 13, she introduced that Beckett Cypher, her 21-year-old son with former accomplice Julie Cypher, had died. 

“Today I joined the hundreds of thousands of families who have lost loved ones to opioid addiction,” the Grammy winner shared through Twitter. “My son Beckett, who was just 21, struggled to overcome his addiction and finally succumbed to it today … my heart is broken.” 

Beckett’s organic father was singer David Crosby, who acted as a sperm donor when Etheridge and Cypher determined to start out a household. But the “Come to My Window” singer virtually turned to a distinct superstar when she and Cypher made the selection to have kids. 

David Crosby helped Melissa Etheridge and Julie Cypher begin their household 

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Julie Cypher, Melissa Etheridge, David Crosby, and Jan Crosby | SGranitz/WireImage

Etheridge and Cypher had their first little one, a daughter named Bailey in 1997. Beckett was born in 1998. From the start there was hypothesis about whether or not the couple had used a well-known sperm donor to have their kids. 

For some time, the pair declined to reply questions in regards to the children’ organic dad. But in a 2000 interview with Rolling Stone, they opened up, revealing that the legendary member of The Byrds and Crosby, Stills & Nash had been their sperm donor. 

The couple knew Crosby and his spouse socially, and once they shared that they had been interested by having children, Jan Crosby volunteered her husband.  

“Jan said, ‘What about David?’” Etheridge recalled. “It came from her, which was the best, most perfect way.” After contemplating it for greater than a 12 months, Etheridge and Cypher determined to go for it.

Melissa Etheridge determined in opposition to asking Brad Pitt to be a sperm donor 

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But Crosby was not the one man Etheridge and Cypher thought-about as a attainable sperm donor. Brad Pitt’s identify additionally got here up. 

“He was such a good friend of mine, and we did consider it,” Etheridge instructed Australia’s Studio 10 in 2016, in response to Today. 

But the couple finally determined in opposition to Pitt, since they knew he needed to start out his family at some point. 

“I looked and I saw how badly he wanted children and I thought, ‘I don’t want to share this with someone who really, badly wants children because my children don’t need another parent — they have two,’” Etheridge mentioned.

Crosby, then again, already had a household. “ He has his own life, has his own family,” Etheridge instructed Rolling Stone, including that she admired him as an artist and musician. 

Jan Crosby instructed the journal that serving to their buddies have infants “was a gift being given — nothing attached.”

Crosby wasn’t Beckett’s mother or father, however he was concerned in his life 

After Beckett’s dying, one individual took to Twitter to say that Crosby didn’t play an element within the younger man’s life past helping along with his conception, CNN reported. But the singer-songwriter shot down that notion. “Not true,” he replied in a tweet. 

He expanded on his relationship with Beckett and Bailey in a May 19 tweet.

“Just so you know …Melissa and a Julie were kind enough and generous enough to to include us as friends …visits ..overnights …kids laughing running through the olive trees ..they didn’t have to do that …wonderful memories Thank you,” he wrote.

In the Rolling Stone article, Etheridge and Cypher defined that Crosby wasn’t concerned in parenting Beckett or Bailey, however that he was of their lives they usually noticed one another from time to time. And the couple had been open with their kids about who their organic father was once they started to ask questions. 

At the time, Crosby mentioned he’d be joyful simply to know that his organic kids had been happy with him. 

“If, you know, in due time, at a distance, they’re proud of who their genetic dad is, that’s great,” he mentioned. 

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