‘RHONY’: Jill Zarin Shares Some of the Most Valuable Lessons She Learned From Bobby

by Jeremy Spirogis
 Jill Zarin and Bobby Zarin at the 2016 Angel Ball

Jill Zarin from The Real Housewives of New York Cityfondly remembered her late husband Bobby on what would have been their 19th anniversary on January 4.

 Jill Zarin and Bobby Zarin at the 2016 Angel Ball
Jill Zarin and Bobby Zarin on the 2016 Angel Ball | Gonzalo Marroquin/Patrick McMullan by way of Getty Images

Zarin’s beloved husband died in 2018 after a battle with most cancers. Some of the forged attended his funeral, which was captured throughout season 10. Zarin and forged member Bethenny Frankel in the end reconnected through the funeral and had a tearful, heartfelt second. She and Frankel had a brutal falling out throughout Zarin’s final season of the present. Zarin was offended with Frankel when she didn’t really feel as if Frankel confirmed up for her husband when he was identified with most cancers.

After Zarin’s husband handed away she shared that he at all times wished her to resolve her dispute with Frankel. She just lately mirrored on different classes he left along with her.

She says Bobby can be proud

Zarin shares that she’s grown over the previous few years. She posted a photograph on what have been her anniversary with Bobby and writes that she feels him watching over her. “Today would have been our 19th Anniversary,” Zarin write. “Bobby Zarin, Mr. B, Bobby Baby….I think of you everyday. I feel you watching over me all the time and @jenniferrogersbelieve calls me with messages.”

“Thank God because I needed you so many times when I didn’t know what to do and you told her and she told me. You would be so proud of me and of Ally. All the little lessons you taught us, many by example were not wasted. Including @jon_wexler I might add! HE! even turns off the lights now. When it comes to judging people, good, bad or indifferent, you are still , sadly in some cases, ALWAYS right. But I will always try to to the right thing no matter what. Thank you for always watching over me…. I will always love you … Xoxo Jill.”

She additionally shares classes realized

Just a few days after her anniversary, she recalled the teachings she realized from Bobby. “What can I say that hasn’t been said or felt,” she started her Instagram post. “How about the lessons Bobby Zarin taught me and that I use every day. I am sorry I never appreciated you as much as I should have. I’m sorry I didn’t listen to you too many times to count, to then say, ‘I should have listened to Bobby.’ You always knew who to trust and who to walk away from. Me.. not so much!”

Zarin recalled her husband’s immense persistence and talent to pay attention. “You always had patience for me like my father still does and let me be me and knew I needed to learn the lessons myself sometimes the hardest way.” She provides, “[Bobby was] the best listener and biggest giver.”

Additionally, she additionally remembers her husband’s generosity and giving nature. She provides that he would by no means “’back me up’ because the NUMBER 1 Bobby Zarin rule for a stepparent is don’t get involved! He always said Ally would forgive me for almost anything but if Bobby would say one cross word to her she would never forget. Of course, Bobby was RIGHT again. That’s why Ally loved him so much. Bobby always knew the right thing to do in all situations. Bobby always said ‘Take the High Road’ and one of his favorites was ‘it’s all good,’ meaning don’t let anything upset you. Life is too short… he was sadly 100 % right again.”

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