‘The Bachelor’: A Christian Gives Her Take on The Madison Prewett and Peter Weber Drama

by Jeremy Spirogis
Madison Prewett

After seeing The
Bachelor
Season 24, Episode 9
, you in all probability have lots of questions
about Madison Prewett’s resolution to inform Peter Weber about her want to save lots of
intercourse for marriage after nearly two months of relationship. Why did she wait so lengthy?
What influenced her resolution to go on The Bachelor within the first place?

We don’t know the solutions to those questions. However, we did get some perception into what Prewett may need been going by way of after chatting with Alexia Anast, a mannequin who identifies as a Christian. Here’s what she needed to say.

Showbiz Cheat Sheet: In your opinion, how vital is intercourse in a relationship?

Madison Prewett | Francisco Roman via Getty Images
Madison Prewett | Francisco Roman by way of Getty Images

Alexia Anast: First and foremost, I want to say
that I used to be not raised Christian and didn’t come to that religion till I used to be 21
years outdated. I consider it’s best for your self and the connection to withhold
from intercourse till marriage. This is solely to guard your self mentally and
bodily (resembling avoiding STIs).

However, I do assume it’s vital to have a sexual
attraction to the particular person you’re relationship, as a result of I consider in relationship with the intention
of marriage, and it might be pointless to marry somebody you don’t have the
want to have intercourse with. In a wedding, I believe intercourse and understanding every
different’s needs/wants is essential.

CS: Do you assume Madison Prewett ought to have informed Peter Weber sooner of their relationship about her want to save lots of intercourse for marriage?

Peter Weber on The Bachelor | Francisco Roman via Getty ImagesPeter Weber on The Bachelor | Francisco Roman via Getty Images
Peter Weber on The Bachelor | Francisco Roman by way of Getty Images

AA: She may have informed him sooner, however I wouldn’t
drag her for ready. I personally put it on the market as quickly as somebody reveals
curiosity in me to keep away from losing time and anybody getting damage. However, I can
see why she could have waited… In this present’s case, there was an opportunity that Peter
would have chosen to not get intimate with the opposite women after falling in
love with Madison. I believe Madison informed him on the good time.

CS: When is it an acceptable time to inform a brand new associate
you’re planning to attend for marriage till partaking in sexual exercise?

AA: I believe this can be a private alternative. For myself, I
prefer to get this out within the open immediately as a result of I’m searching for somebody
who’s aiming for a similar factor.

CS:  Is it lifelike to discover a compromise if one associate believes in working towards abstinence however the different doesn’t?    

Peter Weber on The Bachelor | John Fleenor/ABC via Getty Images Peter Weber on The Bachelor | John Fleenor/ABC via Getty Images
Peter Weber on The Bachelor | John Fleenor/ABC by way of Getty Images

AA: I believe it may be. As somebody who grew up in Las Vegas and had no correct thought of how relationships ought to work, notably relationship, I don’t consider it is best to all the time dismiss somebody who isn’t celibate. They could have by no means really taken time to contemplate it and its advantages.

Most of us are raised on this society the place pre-marital intercourse has change into an informal exercise and nearly an expectation of being in a relationship. The non-celibate particular person would want to make that alternative for themselves fairly than being pressured into making that call.

CS: Anything so as to add?

AA: Relationships may be difficult whether or not intercourse is
concerned or not. It’s vital that you understand what values are most vital to
you and voice these considerations if you really feel it’s an acceptable time. I consider
most individuals know when they need to deliver one thing like this up however keep away from it due
to worry of dropping that particular person. Why delay the inevitable? One of two issues can
occur upon voicing your considerations: 1) your associate could agree with you or be
prepared to work with you, or 2) you may keep away from much more damage and wasted time by
getting it off your chest sooner fairly than later.

Read extra: ‘The
Bachelor’: Should Madison Prewett Have Told Peter Weber About Her Beliefs
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