‘Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist’: Zoey Will Have to Prepare for Her Father’s Death

by Jeremy Spirogis
Jane Levy and Peter Gallagher

Zoey, the title character on Zoey’s
Extraordinary Playlist
, isn’t a fan of dealing with troublesome conditions head-on.
Unfortunately, one state of affairs she’s been attempting to keep away from goes to catch as much as
her ultimately–her father’s impending dying. Zoey has been attempting to downplay his
failing well being, however she might want to face actuality ultimately.

How can Zoe lastly face the music and put together to say
goodbye to her father? Showbiz Cheat Sheet chatted with Audrey Hope, a trauma therapist and
addictions specialist at Seasons in Malibu,
to get her tackle Zoe and the way she’s coping. Here’s what she needed to say.

Showbiz Cheat Sheet: Zoe has been throwing herself into work as an alternative of coping with her father’s declining well being. Is there a greater means Zoe can get by way of this robust time?

Jane Levy and Peter Gallagher | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images
Jane Levy and Peter Gallagher | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank through Getty Images

Audrey Hope: You can not disguise a nuclear bomb in your
physique and anticipate it to go away. You must take care of the ache and on a deep
bodily and emotional degree or it’s going to make you sick. Denial by no means works. It
is like locking the ache in a closet and placing an increasing number of issues inside
it. And then at some point, it explodes, and opens with means an excessive amount of for one individual
to deal with. You can’t preserve ignoring the reality of how you’re feeling.  You must cry it out and punch it out, hit
a pillow and get down with the primal uncooked vitality of grief. 

CS: What recommendation would you give somebody who’s getting ready themselves for the dying of a beloved one with a protracted sickness?

Jane Levy and Peter Gallagher | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty ImagesJane Levy and Peter Gallagher | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images
Jane Levy and Peter Gallagher | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank through Getty Images

AH: Grief is a poisonous vitality like no different. Think of
it as a volcano, a hurricane, or a nuclear bomb that’s dwelling inside you. All
the whereas, you are attempting to be okay and calm it. It is almost not possible to do
that, and attempting to take action could cause anger and extra ache. When it comes with the
trauma of dropping somebody, don’t attempt to instantly be OK.  Know the reality, that it’s laborious and painful
to beat grief, however when you get to the opposite facet of it, you can be
modified.

CS: Zoe is grieving the life she as soon as had along with her father (he was once wholesome, however now he can’t stroll, converse, or feed himself). How can she benefit from the remaining time she has with him as an alternative of dwelling on what they as soon as had?

Jane Levy | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty ImagesJane Levy | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Images
Jane Levy | Sergei Bachlakov/NBC/NBCU Photo Bank through Getty Images

AH: Zoe could be grateful that she has extra time with
her dad in no matter kind that takes. Time is a present and the one who is in poor health will
treasure each little factor you do with them. 
They are not looking for you to undergo and you’ll give them that present by
displaying them you’re doing all of your finest.

CS: How lengthy does it take to really feel again to regular and
absolutely transfer by way of the grieving course of after a beloved one has died?

AH: There is not any time-frame with grief; it is available in
waves. One day you’re wonderful and the following day you aren’t. You can not apologize
for the trail it takes as it’s completely different for everybody. Just journey it out, do the
most you may, and don’t apologize for the time it takes.  People who love you, family and friends who
have been by way of grief, will perceive the method and be there for you. 

CS: Anything so as to add?

AH: There is extra to life than what we see, and when
you might have a religious perspective, you may relaxation within the loss and have a good time the
fantastic thing about life.

Read extra: ‘Zoey’s
Extraordinary Playlist’: 3 Emotional Moments from Episode 1 That Will Make You
Cry

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